Public speaking is the most common fear out there (even more common than fearing death or dentists), but what’s all the fuss about? Public speaking is what’s referred to as a “social phobia.” Generally, the fear stems from poor self-image. And those who are nervous about speaking are generally afraid they’ll appear anxious, making them more anxious. Talk about a vicious cycle!
While those with more minor nerves are typically able to overcome them and improve over the course of a speech, folks with a more acute fear of speaking are likely to grow worse as the speech progresses. To kick things off on the right foot, a clear head is essential. And while alcohol may appear help some, it hurts more speakers than it helps. Instead, try deep breathing and, of course, being well prepared.
The Takeaway: When nervous about public speaking, don’t rely on booze, which is likely to make the speech more difficult. Instead, try deep-breathing exercises.
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“Fears are educated into us, and can, if we wish, be educated out.” — Karl Augustus Menninger