To be fat today is to be all too familiar with an endless string of comments and judgments about your body. Even attempts at compliments come with caveats: “You’re pretty for a big girl” or “You have so much confidence to wear that bathing suit.” This daily frustration led Twitter user @yrfatfriend to start the hashtag #FatSideStories earlier this week. Hundreds of people have shared stories of being mistreated by family members, romantic partners, doctors, and even strangers. Here are just a few examples:

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