Orgasms feel pretty great for everyone, but does one sex have it better? As this video from asapSCIENCE explains, that depends on how you answer this simple question: Do you prefer frequency or duration? It sounds like a physics equation, but we promise we’re talking about masturbation.

The sticking points: Men’s orgasms last somewhere between 3 and 10 seconds. For women, it can be upwards of 20. But guys tend to get off more often than women. So really, we’ve got a hung jury.