Relationship abuse isn’t always physical. This video from the One Love Foundation gives us a harrowing look into emotional abuse. It’s often more subtle—in this case, a boyfriend lashes out every time his girlfriend doesn’t answer his texts or calls.

This topic has been on our minds a lot this week: Just a few days ago the hashtag #MaybeHeDoesntHitYou trended on Twitter. Both campaigns seek to reveal how common relationship abuse is (one in four women is abused by a partner at some point in her life) and end the stigma surrounding domestic violence.