Being part of a threesome is a common sexual fantasy, but finding your way into one (and maneuvering within one) can seem incredibly daunting. For anyone who’s not familiar with sharing intimacy with more than one person at a time, I made the comic below to illustrate some of the most important things to keep in mind. Hopefully these tips can help ensure everyone involved feels safe and can enjoy whatever depth of intimacy they want to share together.

A multi-panel comic from artist Tikva WolfShare on Pinterest

Tikva Wolf is the creator of Kimchi Cuddles, a webcomic based on real life, focusing on ethical non-monogamy and various queer and genderqueer topics. She is also the author of the graphic novel Love, Retoldand Ask Me About Polyamory. Check Kimchi Cuddles out on Facebook.