We’ve all been there. Your ex has a new boyfriend or girlfriend, so you need to embark on a journey and find out every single detail about them. You’re, uh, just curious. This hilarious music video from the hit TV showCrazy Ex-Girlfriend is here to remind you that you’re not crazy the only one who goes down the Instagram wormhole—just make sure you don’t accidentally like a photo from 63 weeks ago. The song is pretty absurd (then again, so is stalking), but it suggests some pretty genius—albeit creepy—strategies: