Quick: Name a few of your deal breakers.

You probably rattled them off without having to think too hard. But when you’re in the midst of a relationship, deal breakers become a lot less black and white.

That’s why we love this video from The School of Life, which lists nine questions you should ask yourself to figure out if you should stick it out or call it quits. You can skip to the 2:30 mark to get right to them.