Women of all sizes know how sh*tty it feels when someone asks if they’re expecting, but they’re not pregnant. It happened to Lena Dunham earlier this week. A fan left a comment on one of Dunham’s Instagram photos asking, “Are you expecting? You look beautiful.” Even when the question is bookended by a compliment, it still feels like a personal attack.

Lucky for us, Dunham had the perfect response. We’ll keep it in our back pocket to shell out next time someone asks if we’re eating for two: